On the 18th of March 2012, the Cape Cod team of the Cornell Alternative Spring Breaks program left sunny Ithaca to embark on a trip that provoked their thought on the effect of homelessness. As usual, being forced to enjoy each other’s companies for seven hours helped to improve the team dynamics more than any of ice breakers that we hard during the weekly team meetings.
Upon our arrival in Cape Cod, we decided to take a tour before our week started. We went to one of its famous beach, sea food restaurant, and other local places by mistake. During our reflection meeting (which we had at the end of each day together with an hour journal entry period) that evening, some of the team participants noted that observation that “it seems that people who live in a dispersed, individualistic community like Cape Cod might easily forget about issues such as homelessness that affect its local residents. The entire team was ready and excited to link the curriculums from their weekly meetings to the Cape Cod community that they have found themselves stuck in for the rest of the week. They were all ready to get a first hand perspective of how people dealt with the issue of homelessness.
Wearing the right attires, breakfast in hand, and armed with principles of service learning, we started each day with a twenty minute debriefing session at the Housing Assistance Coorporation (HAC) office in Hyannis. At the start of the week, the team met people from different programs that are under HAC’s umbrella. They were all surprised to see how happy each one of the employees were considering the heart breaking stories that they hear throughout the day. They learned more about the importance of housing and the purpose of HAC from the employees than I was able to relate to them during our weekly meetings before the trip. Other than learning more about the imaginative project that we were going to bring to reality, the team found the interview and photography workshops helpful as they prepared to interview the clients and take photos that were used in the project. This trip would not have been as eye opening as it was without the involvement of the people whose lives are changed by the issue of homelessness.
The students met with clients (homeless people) from two of HAC’s shelters, Carriage house and village of Cataumet shelters. It was from this exposure to the clients and their relationship with their children that asked the students to take on the challenge of being more engaged with issue of homelessness and the community that they were in. After talking to the clients, the tucked away the preconceived notions that they had of HAC’s clients and quickly realized that they were no different from “regular people,” they just had different stories. Before talking about how the rest of the week went, I want give a brief description of what the exhibit “Houseless, not Homeless” was about.
Although Cape Cod usually brings to mind images of vacationing and relaxing summers, the community’s dependence on the tourism industry has led to the creation of seasonal jobs, the effects of which are exacerbated by the weak economy. As the disparity between people’s monthly income and rent payments worsen, many are forced to move out of their apartments or houses with their family. People who find themselves asking for help at the homeless shelters provided by the Housing Assistance Corporation (HAC) do come from all walks of life.
Of those who end up at the Village at Cataumet, a shelter HAC provides for families, each family has its own story, framed by the portraits. Some are victims of domestic violence, and others need a temporary crutch before they could start walking on their own again. Regardless of their backgrounds, all of them have goals and have professed their hopes and dreams of finding a job again and moving into their own personal space.
Nevertheless, the mothers in the families steadfastly declare that despite their current situation of homelessness, their happiness depends largely on the happiness of their children. Their children, in turn, lend their parents the motivation to become independent and increase the quality of their living situation. This family dynamic in homeless shelters does not differ from those with homes. From a glance or even careful observation, there are no revealing physical or emotional features that define an adult or a child as homeless. Children from the Village at Cataumet and Angel House, a shelter for single mothers and their children, participated in this mural project to present to the public that homelessness does not distinguish one child from another. Aside from the 11 participants, there are 250 more homeless children on Cape Cod who will remain nameless to the public. They are as hyper, spunky, and ambitious as all the other children on the cape.
The term homelessness has acquired an unfavorable connotation with the way that media has portrayed it to the general public. However, in line with the saying “Home is where the heart is,” the families who have been affected by homelessness still are inspired by the family bonds that remain strong. The quality of what is called “home” is not defined by how sizable the house is, even though owning houses and apartments may be something that everyone aspires to. Lacking a sense of ownership of a personal space should not reflect negatively on the individuals themselves, since “home” is intrinsic not to any physical space, but only to the intimacy between parents and their children.
The exhibit that is described in the few sentences above asked for the trip participants to work as a team, practice risk and conflict management, and be persistent to the achievement of the project goals despite the time constraints that presented themselves. After taking a step back to look at the product our hard work and after realizing how much each participant has learned from this experience, I want to applaud the entire team for a job well done.
Thursday, the 23rd of March 2012 was our last day and night in Cape Cod. During reflection period that evening, the participants were asked to describe their week in one word and they responded by noting that their week was unexpected, overcoming, different, indescribable, ataraxy and fun. They all stated different things that they will be bringing back to Cornell but one thing that they all agreed on was the sharing of the knowledge that anyone can be homeless at any point in time, it doesn’t have an age group or social economic status preference. One day a person’s life can be going by smoothly and the next day that same person can find themselves homeless.
We will all like to thank the Housing Assistance Coorporation and the Cornell Alternative Spring Break program for giving us the opportunity to get this experience and give something back to the community that we all keep taking from.